Christmas Reunions: Passing the Torch of Family Stories, Laughter, and Love

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Christmas in the 90s. We were back under one roof again, reunited in Mom and Dad’s cozy little home in Grove, Oklahoma. The scent of cinnamon candles and cornbread stuffing hung in the air like tradition. 

Dinner had been a feast: ham, mashed potatoes, green bean casserole, and a great new dish Sherry brought that everyone loved. Afterward, the grownups migrated to the living room like cattle to shade, bellies full and belts loosened, ready to melt into the couches and watch the Cowboys game. The kids – Zac and Cody, now miniature versions of us, and Haleigh and Jacy, tangled up in a dance-off or board game – were scattered across the floor. 

Somewhere between the second quarter and the third round of dessert, Mom got to gabbing. Lord, that woman could’ve invented social media. She didn’t just know everything going on in Picher, she curated it. Had the whole town on a mental speed dial. 

And then it happened. 

The Family Stories Poured Like Unlimited Coffee

Dennis and I lit up like fireworks on the fourth of July. Suddenly, we were back on the chat piles, barefoot and bulletproof, storytelling like Grandad Ben used to. “Free Wheelin’, Bacon Busters, Chat Rat Physics.” The stories poured out of us like warm coffee; hot, fast, and a little too much at once. Laughter exploded out of the room in waves, the kind that makes you slap your knee and forget your age.

We couldn’t stop laughing. 

Until it happened.

Passing the Torch at a Christmas Reunion — Unintentionally

Somewhere between tales of near-death stunts and homemade pyrotechnics, I looked down. There they were. Zac and Cody. Criss-Cross Applesauce on the floor, eyes wide, jaws slack, handheld games long forgotten. They hadn’t blinked in half an hour. They weren’t just listening, they were studying. 

That’s when it hit us. Oh. Crap.

We had just delivered a high-definition, surround-sound, fully dramatized how-to guide on being a Dirty Little Glover Boy. Royalty-free. Unedited. No disclaimers. No legal fine print. 

We had passed the torch – we lit the fuse. And with it, surrendered all moral high ground to ever lecture, discipline, or prevent them from doing exactly what we had just bragged about. 

We were no longer parents. We were enablers.

Dennis looked at me. I looked at him. And we both knew. We were screwed. There was no going back now.

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The Greatest Inheritance: Handing the Baton of Family Stories

It’s funny – at the time, it just felt like fun. But there was something almost sacred about that space. The lights twinkling on the tree, the low rumble of football on the TV, the smell of Mom’s cinnamon rolls still hanging in the air. Dad leaned back in his recliner, hands laced over his belly, just smiling. Mom sat forward, wide-eyed. That little living room wasn’t in Picher anymore, but as the family gathered for a few hours that night, everything that mattered about home was there.

Dad’s memory was still sharp that Christmas, and Mom’s stories rolled out like ticker tape. 

We weren’t just passing on stories that night… We were saving them.

Looking back, that Christmas family reunion stands out not just because we laughed till our sides hurt, but because something deeper was happening in that living room. We weren’t just telling stories, we were passing the torch to the next generation. We were handing down the blueprint for what it meant to be a Glover: a little wild, a little reckless, but always rooted in love. Barefoot and bulletproof, still.

Our kids saw not just who we had been, but who we still were; brothers, sons, and now fathers, trying to pass down more than advice or discipline. We gave them history – half joke, half gospel – wrapped in laughter, sealed with love. And maybe, just maybe, that’s the real family inheritance.

Not a place, but a spirit. 

Because in the end, home isn’t a house or a town.

It’s the stories we carry – the live ones we set loose into the world.

Keep the Flame Burning

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